Colleen Hoover’s It Ends with Us has struck a chord with readers, particularly young adults, by exploring themes of domestic violence and emotional abuse.

The novel follows Lily Bloom as she navigates through a toxic relationship with her partner, Ryle, while dealing with the trauma of witnessing her father abuse her mother. With the release of the film adaptation, the story continues to spark important conversations about abuse in relationships.

“About 20% of students experience some form of domestic violence or emotional abuse; many cases are not reported to the police. A good number of students also witness it at home, even if they aren’t direct victims,” Youth Crossroads social worker Diana Villalobos said.

Students believe that media like It Ends with Us can help.

“It informs people about what relationships should not look like,” Senior Noemi Jurado said.

Also, “It’s popular on social media, and the book can help teach a lesson,” Senior Marilin Romero said.

For those dealing with similar struggles, there is help at school. Contact your guidance counselor or stop by the social work support staff offices in 211.

“Try to keep your head up. There’s always help, and you’re not alone,” Sophomore Stacy Damian said.

This is what the social worker had to advise students going through something.

“My advice would be to always let a trusted adult know what you’re going through or what’s going on at home. Our main job is to keep our students safe, and it can be very scary, but support staff are here to help with these situations. I would also say to seek help if it’s impacting your mental health, as domestic violence and emotional abuse can have lasting impacts, sometimes being traumatic for the individual. Communication and boundaries are important to practice in a healthy relationship!” Social worker Jocelyn Rivera said.